Who is running your show?
Many of us have heard the amazing story of Sybil, perhaps the most publicized case of severe Multiple Personality Disorder ever recorded. Due to the horrendous abuse and trauma she experienced as a child, Sybil split into over a dozen personalities to exist. What becomes clear from such examples is the soul’s amazing ability to create coping mechanisms to survive.
For most, if not all of us, there are also incidents in our childhood and adolescent which, because of our own unique personal sensitivities, cause us to create sub-personae or personalities which I like to call Basic Selves. These younger aspects of us become our patterns of defense, our sabotagers and our dream-stealers.
This is why, after over 30 years of counseling practice, and the amazing new protocols and healing programs I’ve added to assist others to evolve and change their lives, I always return to explore the Basic Selves – the Inner Family!
I ask the question, who is running your show?
It is rarely the evolved, balanced soul-centered self. While our truth and soul awareness is absolutely present, so frequently the Basic Selves (in addition to other Inner Personae) over-rule, dragging us back into their issues and laments which, at their core insist, “You don’t love me.” “You don’t see or hear me.” “When is it going to be my turn?” etc. etc.
The medicine to integrate these aspects and return a person’s life to harmony and balance is LOVE and wisdom. We have to spend time with our Basic Selves. We have to really get to know them and to appreciate the fact that they hold the key to our inner coherence.
So, instead of rolling our eyes and feeling impatient with them, or numbing out with one or another numbing agent (alcohol, drugs, TV, technology in general) we must realize the profound importance of tenderly engaging with them. They are a part of us and they remind us that we are not fully healed.
“When the (inner) family live in harmony, all affairs prosper.” Lao Tse
Let me help you to clearly identify your Basic Selves and their programs.
It is challenging to do it yourself. One almost always needs a neutral party to assist in this process so that you have to depth of understanding as to how to evolve these aspects of your personality so as to be able to function as a balanced adult who is truly connected to Source and standing in their personal power. Let me help – it’s my joy to assist you to find Inner Harmony.